Now on Amazon, BN.com, and Google Play.
My award-winning memoir, Trailblazer: Lighting the Path for Transgender Equality in Corporate America, is available in many fine bookstores and web portals.
As we celebrated the 25th anniversary of Lucent’s 10/28/1997 historic addition of transgender-inclusive language to its corporate EO nondiscrimination policy, I’ve shared my story for the world to enjoy.
“This is a great book about an amazing journey of a woman who went through hell to become the person she is today.” – Monica Helms, creator of the transgender flag.
To have invented the email attachment is one thing. To have done so while transitioning from male to female and paving the way for Trans rights in the workplace is quite another. Trailblazer is a brave and powerful memoir that is both touching and thought-provoking and absolutely worth the read for those who care about equality.
As a child, Mark Horton loved wearing women’s clothes. Short denim skirts, high heels, anything that made him feel like a woman. As he grew, he hid his proclivities in favor of a more traditional home and work life. But soon the question “who am I, really” was too loud and Mark began to make room for Mary Ann.
In her debut memoir, Mary Ann Horton recounts her search for her true self and reveals the intimate details, both professional and personal, of her transition from male to female. From navigating the dissolution of her marriage to parenting young boys, to “coming out” to coworkers, Mary Ann balanced both her responsibilities and staying true to herself. But not without struggle. She would quickly learn the challenges and heartbreak that came with navigating the maze of social, medical and legal rights afforded, or rather not afforded to the Trans community.
As Mary Ann fully became Mary Ann, her voice grew and with it a commitment to advocacy and activism. Aided by her indomitable spirit, Mary Ann became a powerful force for the acceptance of transgender benefits and rights, first at Lucent Technologies, blazing the trail for corporate America to follow.
Praise for Trailblazer
“This is a great book about an amazing journey of a woman who went through hell to become the person she is today.” – Monica Helms, creator of the transgender flag.
“Brave and Important – Don’t miss this wonderful book!” – Laura L. Engel, author of You’ll Forget This Ever Happened-Secrets, Shame, and Adoption in the 1960s
“We are proud of the work she has done for setting the foundation of today’s Nokia’s LGBT+ inclusion and being a trailblazer of transgender rights at the workplace.” – Anneli Karlstedt, Head of Inclusion & Diversity NOKIA
“Mary Ann Horton is indeed a trailblazer: in her professional life as in her life of faith, she has provided us with a model for courageous, thoughtful, principled engagement with questions of life, faith, marriage, and gender identity. My respect for her, and the life she has carved out for herself, is immense.” – The Rev. Guy Erwin, the first openly gay bishop of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America
“But transitioning within a job is not always possible. And for those who cannot seamlessly “pass” or “go stealth,” there is the question of whether to address the topic directly or wait until a job offer is made. Ms. Horton first faced that choice in 2001, when she looked for a new job … after a decades-long career in computer administration in Ohio as Mark Horton.” – The New York Times
It wasn’t about being first. Mary Ann just pushed for workplace acceptance and equality. She didn’t just do it for herself but blazed the trail by holding down the grass for others to follow.” – Amanda Simpson, former deputy assistant secretary of Defense for Operational Energy for the Obama administration, the first openly transgender woman political appointee of any presidential administration
“Mary Ann Horton changed how we communicate, pushed companies to add gender identity and gender expression to non-discrimination policies, and fought for transgender health care.” – The Daily Beast
“Beyond her technical achievements, Horton deserves notice for her efforts in speaking up for the rights of transgender people in the workplace, which started when she was at Lucent in the 1990s. She helped set the stage for some major changes in the corporate world, particularly in Silicon Valley.” – VICE
“Mary Ann Horton brings a freshness, a delightful honesty, and clarity to her descriptions of self-discovery…“—Jamison Green, author of Becoming a Visible Man
“Mary Ann has been, for nearly 40 years, my invaluable and treasured mentor on transgender issues in the workplace. This very fine book gave me all the personal stories I still needed to fully understand and appreciate her sacred, trailblazing, hero’s journey.” – Brian McNaught, author of Brian McNaught’s Guide to LGBTQ Issues in the Workplace
“Mary Ann Horton is a pioneer of self-discovery. This is one of the most powerful memoirs I’ve ever had the pleasure of reading, and highly recommend it. Mary Ann’s leadership in the workplace and in the LGBTQ community has paved the way for others to be brave as well.” Erin Branscom, Author of My Level 10 Life
“Mary Ann is a passionate and inspirational transgender trailblazer. She challenged and educated her colleagues, including me, to be informed and aware of transgender needs in the workplace, especially at a time when the topic was new and less popular to discuss.” – Ryk Koscielski (Board Member and former Co-President – EQUAL! at Lucent Technologies, Alcatel-Lucent and Nokia)st Book Review
“This exceptional read deals with the fortitude, joy, and often the loneliness of a strong and resilient person going through personal challenges and identity issues. Throughout her story Mary Ann searches for who she really is, and readers walk along side of her as life knocks her down and she pushes forward… Readers will cheer Mary Ann on and rally for the causes of this caring woman as she learns through trial and error how to become the woman her soul demands and deserves.” – Laura L. Engel, President, International Memoir Writers Association
“Mary Ann Horton … secured non-discrimination protections for transgender employees, marking a groundbreaking moment for transgender workplace rights.” – VICE
“This book is a beautiful and practical expression of her faith. Through pain and forgiveness, ignorance, judgments and assumptions of others, Mary Ann chooses to be fully herself and to value others for who they are as she educated others to do the same.” – Beth Allen Slevcove – author of Broken Hallelujahs – Learning to Grieve the Big and Small Losses of Life
“Trailblazer: Lighting the Path for Transgender Equality in Corporate America may sound like a how-to lesson in civil rights and equality, but it is a memoir of author Mary Ann Horton’s life and efforts.
It opens with the stormy confrontation of a marriage on the rocks as the then-cross-dressing author faces an emotionally withdrawn wife who fears that her husband’s habit will threaten their children.
As events unfold, Mary Ann narrates the process of transformation from man to woman that allowed her the freedom to match what she felt inside with her outside appearance.
For many transgendered individuals, the story would end here. But thankfully, for Mary Ann’s readers, this is only the beginning, setting the stage for the struggles she would experience at home and in the business world as she navigated and faced a new glass ceiling already more than familiar to women and which is applied to transgender workers, as well.
As Mary Ann moves into activism and became involved in LGBT legal rights, she also moves from undercover and part-time living as a woman to full-time presenting as female, coming out to her family and explaining her views to foster understanding and acceptance.
In some of these efforts, she succeeded in forging new opportunities and paths of understanding. Other times (as in the case of her mother), tolerance was the best that could be achieved. Candor is a hallmark of this memoir, which explores a crumbling marriage and the costs of living full-time as a woman, as well as the pleasures of finally choosing to live as who she really is inside.
Mary Ann’s focus on being a working woman forms the backbone of her memoir, offering insights not just into trans obstacles, rights, and conundrums, but many of the challenges all women face in the corporate workplace and in stepping into their power and identities.
Readers who would better understand the challenges and promises of coming out and embracing their true selves will find the transitioning process explored in full in Trailblazer, providing illuminating, enlightening reading highly recommended for memoir audiences.” – Midwest Book Review